Happy Mother's Day!
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| Me and my mom at the airport |
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| October 2005, 4 generations! |
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| I think these are the 3 beautes! Sorry Diane and Marilynn |
I love being a mom. I am so grateful for my girls, and that I am their mom. I love my mom, and I love John's mom (I have great in-laws!) I love my grandmothers, and I was also lucky in life to know 2 of my great-grandmothers. I have great examples of women and mothers all around me.
I have a great expectation of myself when it comes to my own way of mothering because of this long line of exceptional mothers, and also because I see my girls and I think they deserve the best and they also deserve so much better than me for a mom. I am learning, and I love learning with my girls.
Now that I have my own family, I realize more of the sacrifices and the unseen details of motherhood. I am amazed at my own mother and all that she did. I remember my mom as a pre-school teacher, piano teacher, going to college, relief society president, young women's president, young women's camp director, and bishop's wife to name a few. All while doing this, she kept an immaculate home (this is one area where I fall way short), she cooked amazing dinners every night (my favorite is her spaghetti sauce), and helped us all keep up our grades, read books to us (I remember
Chester, I Love You, most of all), family home evenings and always family prayer (oh, yes, and she ironed EVERYTHING!) Now do you know why I have a high expectation of myself? I think this is the way to succeed at motherhood (I don't do even HALF of these things). The most important thing that I remember about my mom when I was growing up- was that I was loved. Never a day went by without being told and shown.
My mom supported me in everything! She came to all the band concerts and marching band competitions, every track and cross-country meet (no matter the weather). One of my fondest memories is when I was running at Weber State. I went to an outdoor meet at BYU. I had just been injured and red-shirted indoor season, so this was my first race after returning. The weather was nice, but it was expected to storm. I was running the 5,000 meter run on the track (that is 12 1/2 laps!) When the starting gun went off, it was like it shot a hole in the clouds, and it POURED!!! Before we even finished 1 lap, the officials had decided to cancel the men's 5,000 meter race (which was scheduled after the women's). Needless to say, I did not have a good race. I was last, and I was lapped. During the 12 1/2 laps, people left the stadium, and as the runners finished the race they quickly left the stadium to get out of the pouring, freezing rain. As I crossed the finish line, my mom was on the track (out of the bleachers) and at the finish line with my warm clothes and an umbrella. She cheered the whole race. I was so frozen I could not move, so she basically dressed me, and we make it back to the car. We were some of the last people there. The best part of the day was stopping afterward at a restaurant to get some hot chocolate and driving home with my mom.
So this Mother's Day, my mom is off on her next great adventure on the other side of the world (serving others - of course). I debated for a long time on what to get her. We are sending a card, but I still wanted to do more. So I learned how to make a picture video for her. It is a bunch of random pictures, mostly of my girls, and some others I thought that she would like. It ended up being longer than what I expected, and bigger than what I could e-mail to her or even upload here. So I had to upload it to You Tube.
Hope you enjoy it Mom. Thanks for everything you have done for me, and for all of the opportunities you have given me throughout my life. Thank you for being an unbelievable grandmother to my girls. They miss you and love you. I Love You.
Thank you Marilyn for being a wonderful Mother and raising John to be a wonderful man. Thank you for loving me as one of your own. Thank you for being a wonderful grandmother as well. I Love You.
I love my girls, and I am so grateful to be their mom. I Love you Summer and Whitney! Being a mom is a dream come true, and it is even better than the dream!
Here is the link for the You Tube video. It is about 15 min long, and probably not that interesting to a lot of you, sorry. It was made for my mom! Happy Mother's Day! I miss you and Love You!
Prayers, thoughts and love always.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nqLCh52sad0&feature=youtu.be